I wear females clothes
Dear Caroline,
I would be very grateful if you could offer me some information/advice with the following. Ever since we got married, 6 years ago, my wife has insisted on me dressing in various kinds of females clothes for her while at home,usually for a hour or so on every two or three nights.She insists on me dressing for her always for love-making as she says that this is the only way that she can feel aroused and respond. For the most part I have always granted her wishes and the whole thing never gave me too many difficulties.
In recent times however, she has become much more insistent and wants me to dress as a female for most of the time. Once dressed for her, she becomes very cranky and unloving if I take off the outfits she wants me in.
About a week ago she announced that from now on I will have to wear tights and a slip both when dressed for her and under my male clothes for the rest of the time. Every morning before going to work for the past week she has put her hand up under my trouser leg to make sure that I don't take off the tights before leaving the house, and again she checks that I am still wearing them when I come home in the evening.
I find having to wear a slip and tights under my male clothes while at work etc. very disturbing. Unlike wearing them with a skirt at home, every time you walk or move you become aware of the tights rubbing against the slip under your trousers. I mentioned this to Janet last night but she dismissed it saying that I would just have to get used to wearing them while adding that she was also going to try putting make up on me next.
We actually have a very good relationship together and especially when I wear the females clothes for her she can be be loving and attentive. However I do not understand the reason why she makes me do these things and given that she now wants me dressed nearly all the time and is talking about make-up I do not understand where all this is going.
I would be grateful if you could give me some guidance on this matter. Also,while I would very much appreciate an e-mail response I would kindly ask you not to publish this on the internet.
Thanking You ,
Colm C.Hi Colm,
I think your wife is reacting and behaving quite abnormally indeed, this is by far the strangest problem of all time!
I think you really need to discuss this little fetish with her, man to woman! and ask her why she wants you to dress up!! Its certainly not normal by any means.
Once you have determined the reason only you can decide the next step to take, what she is doing to you emotionally is very abusive really it is, and if you cant stand it tell her right now. Be strong and show her you hate doing this its ruining your respect for yourself and her too, if she wont budge tell her that you cannot degrade yourself anymore and take a break from her, you have your self respect to think about and your virility as a man!!!
There are some help lines at the beginning of my page look one up and give them a ring, I think she needs a bit of counselling and perhaps you could benefit from telling her NO. NO, NO, NOand NO again!
Go on stick up for yourself NOW.
Caroline