A kiss on the cheek!
Hi Caroline,
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we are both in love with each other. I had been going out with him for a month when I pulled his friend. It was really stupid and meant nothing to both of us but we have both kept it a secret from our partners all this time. Recently the girlfriend of the guy I pulled suspects something went on and is trying to get to the bottom of it.
We both promised that we would never say a thing as I know that my boyfriend woul never speak to me or his friend again. Last night he asked if anything did happen and I was to tell him now because if he found out later that would be it over. I definitely can't tell him what happened exactly but i don't know whether i should say that we were both drunk which we were and it was basically a kiss on the cheek and his friends girlfriend is just over reacting??? please help me, I am really scared of loosing him.
Hi Silly Billy!
Well if I were you I wouldn't say anything at all if you really value your relationship with this guy, its still no excuse to make a pass and get on with your guys friend either, so as long as you both get your story straight and not discuss it and yes forget it happened then no one is the wiser except you! I Hope!!!
Since you've got into this mess and know all the implications and consequences has it made you realise that you and your boyfriend need to trust and be honest with each other and to yourselves? I really hope so, and if you get away with him not finding out then you're lucky this time!!!!! If you ever let it happen again you could really lose what you really wanted and then who is to blame? yourself of course.
So next time you find yourself drunk (so to speak) and flirting with another bloke just remember your in control of everything you do! sober or not! you do know what you're doing so don't blame it on alcohol please... spare them that excuse and yourself! Drink coffee and keep the man you really want!
Regards
Caroline