I couldn't get it up!
Hi.
I recently tried to have sex for the first time with a virgin girl. we didn't really know what to do so we tried out the missionary position. for some reason i couldn't get it up, it kept on slipping out. i felt our legs where getting in the way of each other. but everyone else says that position works for them. am i too short or something? i don't understand why it didn't work. we've tried a few times now and i still cant really get it up easily at all without it slipping out, so we keep on ending up stopping, and touching each other instead. i was very embarrassed about the whole thing. i want to try to have sex with her again but im afraid of it happening again which is putting me off the idea and making me paranoid about penis size etc. are there any easier positions i could try that would work? what's going wrong? also my penis points straight upwards, i.e. points towards my face.. is this ok? i thought as your penis develops it becomes more horizontal? why isn't my penis doing that? have i stopped developing?
please please please help. many thanks
18 year old guy
Hi,
The most easiest sexual position or normal sex position is the missionary position it should be comfortable for you to thrust down on your partner this way, alternatively have your partner go on top! sitting standing over you so that she moves up and down on you and your vertical penis it should make things a little easier for the both of you.
I would also recommend the karma sutra book or some book similar in nature giving positions diagrams etc.... try them Im quite sure there's a few to suit you both. Its really worth investing in.
Also if you feel that your private part is going up the wrong way (which it varies on men anyway) you can always pop along to your GP and have a private talk with him about it, confidentially of course. he would more than likely tell you its normal and you can air a few other queries with him too that's if you feel you need proper medical referral.
Good luck
Regards
Caroline