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I get a major erection!

Hi

I am 25 years old and have no girlfriend. I am a really nice guy with a good job/prospects, I keep fit and try to live to the full. My problem is women. I can't seem to meet anyone who I really like and who likes me. The only time I have the confidence to actually try and 'pull' is when I am out and drunk. This then usually ends in a passionate embrace on the dance floor and nothing becomes of it. Its also embarresing as I get a major erection on and they must be able to feel it.

Can you offer any advice to me.

Regards

Dave

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Hi Dave,

Are you going out deliberately looking for love and a relationship?

If so that's where you should stop! Go out and have the intention of having fun not a snog, sex or pick up a girl!

Girls can tell a mile off! Be cool, have a drink, have a laugh tell your mates jokes (look some up and prepare before going out if you have to) make 'em laugh and watch the girls come flocking to you! be friends first then it starts happening mate!

And anyway, you don't always meet the girl of your dreams at the local nightclub or pub! I met my partner at the bus stop! Yes that's right in broad daylight! and sober as a judge! So there's food for thought. The supermarket! the library! the leisure centre, a martial arts club! the list is endless and if you feel the urge to meet someone and that your looking for a relationship, do it in daylight and stick to clubs and classes! you're bound to bump into someone!

Good Luck

Caroline