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I am very frustrated!

Hi Caroline

My husband is not at all romantic.he never kisses me or shows any love. Sex is just a 2 minute affair which is less than twice a year. Most of the time he works away and is far from home. as far as i know he is not having an affair. i feel so lonely. when i talk about it with him,he either changes the topic or makes a joke and leaves the room.i am quite attractive to look at. i have other men friends who would go for an affair with me if i show inclination but i don't want to deceive my husband. i believe in fidelity in marriage. i am very frustrated and lonely.

please tell me what to do

Thanks

Rajita

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Hi Rajita,

I'm sorry that your feeling low, and feel your being ignored or mentally tortured in a way by your husband. You must tell him, are you having ana affair it means a lot this marriage and I need to know where I stand, i cant live like this. either love me and show affection or set me free and I can find happiness again, if that doesn't provoke a response then I would consider alternative arrangements in your relationship.

You need affection, we all do, if he cant or won't give it to you then you should tell him your options!

Be strong

Caroline