Will I Never KUM!
HI CAROLINE,
Me and my boyfriend (who i love very much and yes we use protection)have been having sex for about two months (before which i was a virgin) and i have never had an orgasm with him.at first i didnt see this as a problem and thought we jus needed time but as times going on im wondering if theres a problem?my boyf's been fantastic and has done his best to make sure im comfortable and spend a bit more time on me but nothing seems to work i think hes grate in bed and he has no problem "KUMMIN" so why do i??.i dont hate sex i enjoy it, its just that i dont have a peak of pleasure (or aything "earthshatering").weve tried not to make an issue out of it but i was wondering if theres anything that might help? i've tried masterbating but it doesnt really appeal to me and i dont feel comfortable doin that to myself. is it that me and my boyf are not "sexually compatable" or will i never "KUM" because its begining to fustrate me!!
THANK YOU ANGEL x
Hi,
Stop getting frustrated right now it wont do you any good getting wound up and worrying about it. There really nothing to worry about really is there? He's a great partner and you give him pleasure he's trying to give you pleasure too, maybe you should try a new approach a different position or positions? get dressed up and feel sexy, talk sexy to him get worked up a bit have some foreplay!!! very important before lovemaking this is what gets the juices flowing (so to speak!) you get heightened excitement and want him more and more he caresses you and kisses you, before entering you, try this kind of technique and then see how you feel and I bet you'll get that feeling you've always wanted!.
It's all about taking time and using technique too.
Regards
Caroline