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My Life is Cruel!

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Hello Caroline,

I am a 19yr old male who has never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl due to me being shy and going bald, yes bald how many 19yr olds do you know who are going bald? I bet the answer is none. Because of this I frequently masturbate, sometimes thinking about what normal men my age do with their girlfriends, I have given up all hope of getting a girlfriend so I just masturbate about 15 times a week, please can you give some advice on how to cut back or stop. I sit down at night thinking what's the point of life, and I always end up with the answer to create the next generation, and as I will never get a girlfriend what's the point?

My life is cruel.

Thanks for your time anyway.

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Hi Matthew,

Life is cruel to all of us at some time or other but we do go on and get over it, get better and become stronger and we learn from things that happen to us always.

Anyway, you're young and well men who are bald or going bald are attractive to some women so please don't give up hope on the hair thing! Look at Andre Ages! he's bald and Duncan Goodhue (a swimmer) he's bald! Yep you can be bald and sexy to women.

Masturbation is not a bad thing or wrong to do, it helps your hormones and well if you get the feeling that you want to do it then do it in private at night. There's nothing wrong with it.

I'm quite sure that if you broaden your horizons just a little bit more than staying at home feeling sorry for yourself you'll make new friends and men and women join a club, or some hobby get out and about you'll soon see how it will change, keep optimistic and assertive and when the time is right miss Right will find you. So don't feel guilty about what your doing to yourself. Its pleasure for yourself. but at least you know you can get an erection when the right time comes and you'll know what it feels like.

You're still young and you will meet someone there's always someone for everyone.

Regards

Caroline.