Is she playing with me?
dear caroline
there was a girl i met at the weekend had a bit of a laugh then got her mobile number from her and also gave her my mobile number, she then sent me text messages that night to see how i was, basically she sent me a text message saying- she doesn't want a relationship at the moment but would love a new friend i replied that i did like her and respected her feelings but she still wants to go out for a meal.
also another message last nite that she said goodnight sexy i replied by saying you have changed your tune she replied saying she calls all her friends sexy i then replied sorry must of got the wrong end of the stick she replied - what u saying sorry 4 silly?u can grab what ever end of the stick u like. don't sound so frightened goodnight dear. please please help me i like her a lot but is she playing with me.
Hi there,
Hmmmm, it could be one of two reasons One, she's shy and cant tell you she wants a boyfriend so is testing the ground with you to see how you feel first before letting you know she wants a relationship.
Two, shes just flirting with you and having some girlie fun, harmless and teasing and not really letting you know what she feels or wants.
All you have to is go out on a date with her, and tell her that your looking for a girlfriend and you like her, you want to take her out and be her boyfriend, is there any harm in that? wait for her reply if she says she wants to be just friends, then say oh well that's a shame I really thought we could've had a good thing going here! never mind lets be mates, I can ask that other girl out now, and watch the colour drain from her face!!!! (sounds cruel, but watch her change her attitude!)
If she says Ok lets go out and take it from there.....
I do hope it works out the way you want it to, and if not, always remember the girls that let you down are not the ones for you, the next one will be.....Its a full bowl of fish out there and there's one for you at the right time and the right moment. So don't let it be a problem, one day you'll be glad this happened to you.
Regards
Caroline