---

---

---

Behind you, behind you!

---

Hello Caroline

Could you please help my partner and myself with anal sex.We have just found out the joys of it but how do we keep ourselves clean without using a condom? Sorry if it is a bit vague but it is the best I can say.

Thank you best wishes Allister

---

Hi Allister

Firstly you do not specify if your partner is male or female! Using a condom solves many problems with sex of any kind, particularly anal. The passing of AIDS and other sexual diseases, but also your anus and faeces has several hundred other diseases and parasites that can potentially make you ill.

I would suggest, yes, break off your excitement for one minute and use a condom or make sure you wash yourself thoroughly after sex and I mean thoroughly.

Keep yourselves safe and clean while having fun and please be careful when you shove it up the bum!!

Regards

Caroline