Him or Her?
Dear Caroline
How are You? I hope everything is Fine.
I kinda have a lil problem, I am out with this guy, I've been with him neally 6 Months next Friday, i do love him, he's such a great Guy, But i've met someone else and am out with her. This girl, I call her Mimi, Shes gorgues, Funni, She makes me laugh, every time she signs onto MSN my heart beats faster and faster, I've never met her, i've met her threw a chatroom, But something in me feel so strong towards her, She brings more smiles to my face than i think i've eva had.I Just want to be with her, Be in her arms. She feels the same way too. She doesn't know about my bf, and i dont want to hurt her because i think i am slowly falling in Love with her. I don't know what to do or say, and to be honest i'm scared, because i know at the end of this, I'm gonna loose One of them, please help me Caroline
Thank You,
Jayne xx x
Hi Jayne,
I think you have a slight e crush on your mate and miss reading the signals here and just because she's so funny it means that you like her as a friend you can love your friends you know!
You can love them in a different way you like their company and you like their laughter or just something about them you love because they do something to you and make you feel good, its not love as in relationship sexual love its just wanting to be with them love and rapport that you have.
Try not to interpret this the wrong way as you have, you have a bf give him your sexual love and be a loving mate to your e mail friend. Oh and you heart beating faster and faster well that's just because you like listening to her talk and you have a connection with her that's all, you both have the same wavelength and it's not worth spoiling you current relationship with an e mail chatty friend.
Regards
Caroline