4 and a half inches!

Dear Caroline,

I am hoping that you can help me with something.

I consider myself to be a very amiable and happy person. I am very sensitive to others needs and am a good listener. I get along with everyone at work and I have a fairly active social life. I am over 6 ft tall, broad, with light colouring and from what people tell me, have nice eyes and a warm smile. Outwardly I am very happy but inwardly I feel like I am dying inside.

I would love to be able to meet someone and have a relationship, except for one thing. This may seem very silly, but it is not to me. We live in a world where size seems to matter in everything. The thing is although I am very broad and tall, my manhood is not. I only measure 4 and a half inches when erect. This is very small for a man. The rest of me seemed to grow but that part of me did not. As a result I have always shied away from women, knowing that if the crunch came it would ruin a relationship. I hear friends talking about this all the time, about partner size and how they could never like a small man and “this would not be satisfying” etc….

I have started relationships, but when it “got serious” I have always made an excuse and run away. I am too embarrassed to say anything for fear that the bombshell will be too much. I do not want to feel pitied. I feel that being kind, respectful and sensitive to a woman will not be enough to sustain a relationship.

Last year the situation got to such a point that I attempted suicide. I was found before the pills could take effect, but I put it down to an accidental overdose. I realise nothing can be done about this but I am dreadfully unhappy and do not know where to turn. I do not want to discuss this with a person face to face as I am a very private person and just know I couldn’t openly discuss.

I don't know what you can say but I would appreciate anything that could help me.

Thanks and regards,

Michael.

Dear Michael,

If I said to you that size is not really everything! I mean it. Because it's not what's in your trousers that gets you the woman you want and if she's worth being with then it really shouldn't matter if she's the right girl for you. Sex isn't everything you know companionship can be great and friendship too any woman who judges you by the size of your privates is very shallow and doesn't deserve the man you really are inside in your heart and soul Michael! So don't feel embarrassed at all and stop making it into such a problem because it isn't worth it and next time you get the chance to be romantic (if you know what I mean) have sex and enjoy it your probably missing out by not having the pleasure of sex with a woman, don't be sorry for yourself Life is not lead by the Penis always!!!!!

Any woman worth their weight in gold wont even look at the size! you giving her pleasure will please her not the size of your privates believe me! You can always give pleasure other ways too!!!! So carry on being you and stop wanting something that's not your natural self you should be happy with your life and not the life of your penis its in your trousers after all and only comes out now and again so really its not a deal is it?

I do hope you realise this and see that there's too much other things to worry about in the world so feel lucky and grateful that you have good health and come to terms with your wonderful self!

And next time you ask a girl out and you get intimate go for it mate and enjoy yourself, you will surprise yourself.

Regards

Caroline.